In modern Hebrew, the word for "parent" is horim. It’s difficult for English speakers to follow, but this word shares the same origin as the Hebrew word for “teacher” (moreh). They both come from yarah, which means “to teach or instruct.” Interestingly, the English word parent comes from a Latin word, parere, which means “to bring forth” or “to give birth.”
This contrast between the Hebrew and Latin roots reveals something profound. While the Latin root focuses on the biological act of bringing a child into the world, the Hebrew root emphasizes the ongoing responsibility of teaching and guiding a child. Together, they remind us that being a parent is about much more than creating life—it’s about shaping it.
In the Bible, parenting is consistently portrayed as a guiding role. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” The word for "train" here, chanak, conveys the idea of dedicating or initiating someone into a path. This goes beyond mere instruction; it’s about setting a child on a purposeful journey. Similarly, in Deuteronomy 6:6-7, parents are called to teach God’s commandments to their children at all times—whether sitting at home, walking along the road, lying down, or rising up. This paints a picture of parenting as a constant and intentional act of guidance, not limited to formal lessons but woven into everyday life.
Modern life often measures parenting success by how well we provide for our children—food, clothing, shelter, and education. While these are essential, they only scratch the surface of what it means to be a parent. Parenting happens in the moments of teaching: helping a child understand right from wrong, encouraging them to move forward and develop, and showing them how to navigate life’s challenges.
This also has a generational impact. Psalm 78:5-6 calls on parents to pass on God’s truth to their children so that future generations will know and follow Him. This idea highlights the far-reaching influence parents have—not just on their own children, but on the world their children will help shape. They leave a legacy that extends far beyond their own lifetimes. Children raised with love, wisdom, and purpose become adults who pass those same values on to others.
Keep in mind, you don’t do this on your own. Parenting, like any great task, requires more than just our own strength and wisdom. In moments of doubt or exhaustion, we can rely on God’s wisdom and strength to guide us. James 1:5 reminds us, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach.” God’s wisdom is available to us when we seek it, and His strength sustains us in our weakness. Additionally, remember the support of others around us—our community of believers, friends, or family. We are not meant to walk this path alone. With God’s guidance and the encouragement of those who walk alongside us, we can navigate the challenges of parenting with grace and purpose.